| Location | Barking Essex |
| Age | 43 years |
| Cause of Death | Brain Haemorrage |
| Date of Birth | 15/05/1965 |
| Date of Death | 07/09/2008 |
| Visitors | 905 since 31/10/2008 |
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Our mum was 43 years old when she passed, she was the best mum anyone could have asked for. She was married to my dad for 15 years but they seperated many years ago. She then met Dave who she was with untill her passing.
She only had two kids myself and my brother but she was like a mum to many of our mates too.. When she passed she not only left us two kids behind but also two older sisters, many neices and nephews and friends and also two beautiful granddaughters aswell who she loved dearly, Laney who is 3 and Macey who is now 6 months.. I suppose we are thankful that she was here to see Macey and spend what little time she did have with her..
Our mum never complained about being ill and was not ill, although people kept telling her she looked ill, she always said she felt fine and carried on with life as normal.. In July of this year our mum was taken into hospital at King Georges after collapsing at home.. The next day she was taken to The Royal Free Hospital where she spent nearly a fortnight in intensive care..Many of the doctors didn't think she would come out of there alive... but she did and started to make a recovery.. Once out of intensive care she continued to get better but then out of the blue started to get worse again.. Towards the end the best way to describe it is "It weren't our mum, or the mum who we knew who her to be".... She was put on the waiting list for a liver transplant and started to undergo various tests to prepare for the operation which sadly never happened as on the 7th Spetember 2008 at 2:45am our mum passed away in the Kings College Hospital where she was transferred to for more tests....
Our mum as we said was the best, she was loved by everyone and if she could would help anyone.. if it was to an ear to listen, a shoulder to cry on, somewhere to stay or just someone to be there for no matter what time she was there...
We miss our mum and not a day goes by when we don't think about her... She was our mum and we loved her more then words can say and we miss her like mad.. The saying goes "You can't choose your family but you can choose ur friends" well we're glad that we was given her as our mum...
Below is a poem that was read out during my mums service...
The Lord saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be,
So he put his arm around you and whispered come with me,
With teary eyes we watched you suffer, and saw you fade away.
Although we loved you dearly we could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating, a beautiful smile at rest,
God broke our hearts to prove he only takes the best.
It's lonesome here without you we miss you so each day,
Our lives are not the same since you went away,
When days are sad and lonely and everything goes wrong,
We seem to hear you whisper cheer up and carry on.
Each time we see your picture you seem to smile and say "Don't cry I'm in Gods keeping we'll meet again someday"
Hello Mum
Just thought i'd say hello. miss u loads especially this time of year cause i know you always loved Christmas... Macey is a lil moo as i'm ure you can see for yourself...Wish you was here in person to see her now..she'd ave loved you..Laney is ok...she misses you but we all do..
Tell Jo thanks for the message glad to know your ok..as for holding grudges mum like i said i can forgive but i'll neva forget..you know!!
Anyway mum i feel lot beta knowing your ok but i knew you wud be your with nanny n grandad and Jo and michael so you wud be..Als tell grandad i won't forget him, even though i neva met him i'll always remember him from what you told me and the pictures i have of him..
Love you mum
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Hiya x
Just popping by to say hello.. Hope your resting peacefully up there and looking down on the ones who love and miss you the most..
Sleep tight
Sam xxx
PS Macey is a little moo lol
Hi mum
Sorry not been on here for a while...I miss u loads as you can probaly see Macey is getting on well she's a lil cow wish u was here in person to see how fast shes growing u'd have loved her and her u..
Got Dean living with me now.... Laney has chicken pox but is getting on well..She ask after ya at times when she sees something of urs..
Me i'm me...started me driving lessons now so soon be on the road god help everyone..lol I can hear Jo now god help em bam bam's on the f..ing road...lol Got to have another op on my knee in the next few months.
Anyway mum can't believe it nearly a year ago that u was taken ill it has gone so quick, but ain't got no easier to be honest.. There times wen i need ya to talk to you about things and get answers suppose i cud walk to your grave and chat with ya but bit hard at the moment though can't walk too far as found out yesterday..
Anyway Mum i love u more then anything and miss u loads and loads..Ur always in my thoughts mum
Love u x x
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday Mum, Miss you more and more each day that passes.. Love u always Forever in my heart Lauren x x
Happy Birthday Nanny, Although we never spent much time together u'll always be remembered, Love u Nanny x x Macey x x
You Meant So Much
You meant so much to all of us
You were special and that's no lie
You brightened up the darkest day
And the cloudiest sky
Your smile alone warmed hearts
Your laugh was like music to hear
I would give absolutely anything
To have you well and standing near
Not a second passes
When you're not on our minds
Your love we will never forget
The hurt will ease in time
Many tears I have seen and cried
They have all poured out like rain
I know that you are happy now
And no longer in any pain
love theresa xx
Happy Birthday Les xx
Wishing you a very Happy Birthday stay close to Lauren and Dean today as it will be hard for them not having you here today to share your day with you xxxxx
Hello
Hi Mum
Sorry not been on here for a while to write you a little note, or been to the cemmetry i will do that i promise ya... Miss you loads Mum.. I know you can hear me as little things that have happened after i have spoke to you, u know!!!!
Anyway i know your up there looking down and have probaly heard ceratin things that are gonna happen, in a way i am happy but then i think why now, why weren't it done ages ago, Anyway i don't even wanna go but just to keep the peace ya know me i will..
Well mum like i said i miss ya more and more each day and love you loads and loads... Wish you was to talk to in person be so much easier cause at least i'd get a reply from you and knpow what your thought s were on things....
Love you Mum always in my heart
Lauren x x x
Hello Mum
Sams friend Jane passed away today, Sam is in a terrible state she has taken it really bad... Please look after Jane mum if ur paths cross, She such a lovely women u and Jo wud love her..
When i heard she'd died it brought it back to me losing you, i know exactly how her kids are feeling mum and it ain't nice there are no words that can describe the pain or the heartache u feel...
Anyway mum sory ain't been to visit ur grave but i will and i'll put some lovely flowers on there i promise... ALso mum Lou Lou gone into labour watch over her and baby heidi she needs u, u know she don't do pain....
Love u mum and miss u more and more each day
Always in my heart and forever in my thoughts always
Love u
Lauren x x x x x x
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